WATCH WHAT YOU SAY

Worldly influence can deter us and corrupt our thoughts and words. What we say out of our mouths have control over our lives and those that are within earshot. Words of encouragement can produce victory in situations, just as negativity spawns defeat.

You are useless and stupid.

I wish you had never been born.

You are poor and ugly, no one is ever gonna love you.

You remind me of your no-good daddy.

You can’t do this, or you won’t ever do that…

Pretty harsh words to say to someone. We hear similar words too many times to mention, and often spewed out angrily at children. Ever wonder what happens to children that are berated and ridiculed in such a manor? More often than not they become the thing that words cursed them to be. Many will grow up embracing all the negative things they have heard spoken to them; because it starts in the mind, and words have a way of lingering there if unchecked.

Words are powerful and often express our inner most thoughts and desires. So when shaping the minds of young people whether it is parenting, in a classroom, or in ministry, we must watch what we say. We need to remember the power of our words and the Word of God.  The Bible says the words of the reckless pierce like swords, but the tongue of the wise brings healing (Proverbs 12:18 NIV). The Bible also teaches us not to conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind… (Romans 12:2 NIV).
The world is reckless with controversy, negativity, and unrealistic standards that our children are being fed continually. So we must be wise in our approach to the young minds of today and offer hope, correction and healing with our words, through God’s Word.  It is our duty to speak life into the minds of our children and remind them of their worth in His kingdom. So let children know that God put them here for a purpose, He loves them if no one else does, they were created in His image, and they can do all things through Christ that strengthens!

Scripture:The tongue has the power of life and death, and those who love it will eat its fruit. Proverbs 18:21 NIV

Prayer: Father God, we pray that You will watch over us and guide our words and deeds. Many of us have suffered because of words, so Lord please forgive us for any harsh words spoken and heal those that have been wounded with words. Help us to renew minds and hearts as we minister to broken spirits, so that they will know they are accepted, valued, loved and forgiven in Jesus’ name, Amen.

Read Isaiah 43:1-13 to get an understanding of the love God has for us, in His own words!